Friday, December 9, 2011

Marriage

I love my husband. I truly love my husband. He is a good man, a great man, a patient man. This entry is not going to be a hate fest or a love fest. It's just going to be the facts.

Fact.
After baby EVERYTHING changes.
Everything really does change. Her body changes and the Husband learns to deal with his new responsibility as a father. I'm not insinuating that a real man takes responsibility BUT a real man will take responsibility and do so without complaining to take care of his wife and new child. The wife needs to make sure that she shows appreciation for all the work he is doing.

Fact.
I have failed at showing my appreciation. I'm not the best wife in the world and Hubby knows that. Admitting that I have failed him as a wife to him...very difficult. Hubby has made many sacrifices so that Baby Boy and I can live comfortable. I need to work part time so Hubby pushed back his schedule later so that he could be here in the morning to take care of Baby Boy until I am off of work. He knows I want to someday be a stay at home mom so he is working very hard to work towards a promotion.

I fail. I promise for Christmas Hubby will know how much I appreciate and love him.

Tomorrow's post??? Hopefully it will be about my new nephew ;)

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